Many people believe that protections under the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) are only available to those abused by a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident spouse. However, this law also protects immigrant parents who are victims of abuse by their U.S. citizen children who are over the age of 21.

As an immigration attorney in California, I’ve worked with many clients who were unaware of this right. Fear, shame, or legal confusion often prevent victims from seeking help. It’s important to understand that the law recognizes different forms of abuse not just physical violence. Constant insults, threats, extreme control, emotional manipulation, financial exploitation, or abandonment can also qualify as abuse.

VAWA allows the immigrant parent to file a self-petition (Form I-360) without the abusive child’s involvement. This helps protect the victim from retaliation or further manipulation during the process. The application requires evidence of the parent-child relationship, proof of abuse, and documentation of the applicant’s good moral character. The parent must have lived with the child at some point, although they do not need to be currently living together.

If the petition is approved, the applicant may become eligible for lawful permanent residency. In some cases, it is also possible to request a work permit while the case is pending.

The process can be emotionally challenging, but there are legal and community resources available to support you. It is important to document every incident of abuse and seek legal guidance from a qualified immigration attorney.

No one deserves to be mistreated, regardless of immigration status. If your child is insulting, controlling, or threatening you, you are not alone and you are not without options. The law is on your side, and VAWA may be the first step toward a safer, more dignified life.

Consult an experienced immigration attorney familiar with VAWA to review your specific situation and begin the journey toward the legal protection you deserve.